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I/We are looking for
I am a single male not new to the lifestyle and enjoy meeting new couples and single females. I cherish REAL, HONEST friends.

I will never forget what it was like to be new. If you can't carry on an open conversation - then maybe I am not for you.
I am a member of Paradise lakes in FL, Miami Velvet Swing (founding member)in FL, and DJs Island in PA.
I am very open minded. If you have issues with race, religion or sexual prefs, then move along. I will not tolerate racisits in my life. We are all here for the same reason - so if you have a brain - then write me please.

My age prefs are listed as 18-60, but that is mostly for the party attendees. My prefered ages for play partners are from 25-60.

Now - folks - THINK about putting up private picts in your profile and opening them to me when you write. I also really appreciate folks who have generic/classy pictures in their public pictures. It says a lot about you - and your certs will speak for you more than you know. I certify people I know and have met - but never make immature statements about "how good" they are - expect my certs to speak of your wit, charm, humor and honesty.

If you are used to a man that sits on the couch, drinks his beer while watching TV - all while you mow the lawn, then throws his empty beer bottle at the TV and breaks it because you weren't there to get him another - then I am not for you. If you are the type of lady who knows when not to be a lady and likes to be treated like a princess on a pedistal - drop me a note.

Also, I do not tolerate nor endorse anyone spreading rumors - so please keep the drama at home. If you have something to say to someone - please be honest and say it to their face...

Describe Yourself:
I am a fairly fit, non-judgmental, passionate, very romantic and attractive man. (Or so I have been told) I am a retired Firefighter from Miami, Florida. I stay active, 6'6", brown hair and green eyes.

I do smoke and drink, but understand those who don't and can be courteous. I enjoy many aspects of the lifestyle and am comfortable with most things except the usual kiddy, animals or potty stuff. I am basically straight, but also comfortable with close MM/FF/MFM/FMF/MMFMM/FFMFF contact. Race not an issue as long as we can act like adults.

I am very friendly, discreet, and understand and respect the limits of others. I enjoy traveling, entertaining friends, camping, and riding motorcycles. (Gold Wing and Camper) I am fairly open to a lot of things. Favorite Things? Oral, intercourse (duh), toys, lotions, massage, erotic movies and did I mention oral? ;-) I also appreciate intelligence.
I am Vas Safe, D/D free. (Please be as well)

Tell us about your fantasies and/or real experiences.
Enchanted Evenings with favors, home movies, and any form of flirting, are fun things to do. I enjoy "regular" nights out with friends. You don't need to be models for Cosmopolitan or GQ, but physical attraction and compatibility is important. (Hey, we aren't Spring Chickens anymore) I prefer to be friends first, and really enjoy doing normal life encounters (like the beach, boat, movies, dinner etc.) as well as having an open mind to new experiences. Meeting for a BBQ with the family can be as much fun and rewarding as exchanging personal time, so you must fall into this category. Remember, FRIENDS FIRST! It also helps if you find the concept of seeing your partner in an erotic situation exciting. Remember, it is perfectly acceptable to enjoy "same room, same partner" encounters.

What else would you like to say, do, see, hear about or learn about.
Ask me - you might be pleasantly surprised.